Who runs the world? Girls! In these matriarchal societies, these aren’t just women-empowering lyrics in a Beyoncé song but a fact of life. Matriarchal societies are those in which women hold positions of power and authority and are the primary decision-makers in both their families and community. While patriarchies have been the norm in most societies throughout history, the following five countries are home to matriarchal societies that show what the world would look like if it were indeed run by women.
1. India’s Khasi Tribe
The state of Meghalaya in northeastern India is home to the Khasi tribe, which is known for its matriarchal society. In the Khasi culture, property and wealth are inherited through the female line, and women have a strong say in household and community decisions. Women are also free to choose their own partners, and divorce is not stigmatized.
2. China’s Mosuo People
The Mosuo people in southwestern China are often referred to as the “last matrilineal society in China.” In this matriarchal society, any property is passed down through the female line, and women are the primary decision-makers in the family. Children are raised by their mothers and maternal uncles, and there is no concept of marriage as we know it. Instead, men and women have relationships known as “walking marriages,” in which they are free to choose their partners and can end the relationship at any time.
3. Indonesia’s Minangkabau People
The Minangkabau people of West Sumatra, Indonesia, have a matriarchal society in which property and wealth are inherited through the female line. Women hold a high status in Minangkabau culture and are often the ones who make decisions regarding family and community affairs. However, men still hold important positions in the government and religious institutions.
4. Ghana’s Akan People
The Akan people of Ghana have a matriarchal society in which inheritance and succession are traced through the female line. Women hold a high status in Akan culture and are often the ones who make important decisions regarding family and community affairs. Men still hold positions of power in government and religious institutions, but women have a strong presence in Akan society.
5. Costa Rica’s Bribri People
The Bribri are an Indigenous community in Costa Rica who have a matrilineal society. Women are the heads of households and are responsible for passing down their culture, traditions, and land to their daughters. Men have important roles in Bribri society, but they do not hold the same level of authority as women.
Matriarchal societies offer a unique perspective on gender roles and relationships, ultimately challenging the traditional view of male dominance and patriarchies. By examining these women-first societies, we can gain a better understanding of the diversity of human culture and the many ways in which people have organized themselves throughout history.
I am a 72 year old woman, and to this day, I believe that women should be in charge. I have lived in a patriarchy society, and found nothing but cruelty and pain from the men. They expect a woman to do a man’s job and to do everything for them. They believe that women are basically their slaves and should do any thing that they want to do. My face was burned because I was too pretty for my age and I was drugged and raped. Was women in charge this would not be happening! If you have a chance to join a women’s society, do it!
I am so sad for your experience. We (women) will never have true freedom until we end the patriarchy. I am 75 years old, and feel so despondent about about the state of the world. We had dreams for equalizing our worlds, but now the mother (earth) is being destroyed and most people do not seem to really care. Take care. Love.
Sorry for what you had to go through but putting women in charge would change a damn thing. One in every three people who
has suffered domestic abuse is men and for dating high school students boys are more likely to be abused than girls and while your experience was terrible it’s not something that happens everyday and is unique to yourself, a significant number of men also suffer alot. Also men had no issue with women just staying out home and working while the women take care of the house and children. It was the feminists meaning you women that pushed the idea that more women should be in the work force so if you have any gripe who have to take it up to them.
I think its funny that you left this comment underneath this article. You apologize for what happened to Anna but undermine everything else she’s saying. You don’t make much sense either which makes me think even less of you. Sounds like you love to blame women for problems men have created. Praying that any women around you are getting a break from you and your lack of awareness.
It sounds more like Elizabeth is the one who lacks awareness. Carelessly blaming others (namely a broad category of people) for specific problems and villainising genders is pointless, plus very immature.
It sounds more like Elizabeth is the one who lacks awareness. Carelessly blaming others (namely a broad category of people) for specific problems and villainising genders is pointless, plus very immature.
Women working isn’t the issue. Why are you commenting that, there are so many society’s were men are in charge, go there.
Very sorry to hear of your experience. I am 75 and couldn’t agree with you more.
I am really sorry for you.
Women “being in charge” in the last decades is correlated to higher crime rates against women in modern Western countries. Women repeatedly vote for policies which directly or indirectly allow criminals to flood into otherwise safe countries. Feminism creates a society of millions of neglected and frustrated men, and then you wonder why there’s so many men who assault women. Since feminism has created a society where most men are becoming increasingly more unhappy, this also means any significant progress in society will be increasingly stunted. Men always have been, and still are, the driving force behind basically all technological/medical/scientific advancement. Now it’s to the point where Western people themselves will possibly go extinct, because a feminist society leads to women choosing to abort/kill millions of their own offspring. Feminism on paper may sound nice. Feminism in action is a crime against humanity.
Yeah! I’d love to hear how people report feeling in a matriarchal society.
You forgot Barbie Land!
The best!!
Thanks for you guidances
Men should stay home and manage the household so the women who give them birth can flourish.
Hi Susanne, I’m not sure if you and a lot of the folks who posted comments on here are aware, but more and more men are quitting their jobs to stay at home and take care of the family and household duties. I’m proud to say that I’m a househusband, and my wife works and brings home the bacon. It’s not because I’m lazy, my wife just makes 3x the salary I was earning, she’s a workaholic, she’s incredibly successful, and has a very high ranking position. Further, she hates cooking and is terrible in the kitchen. I LOVE cooking and raising our family, so it’s a perfect setup. We have two daughters and a son, and I want my daughters and son to know that it’s perfectly normal and cultural for women to be the head of the house and the breadwinner of the family and for the men to be the caretakers of the house. The world is changing…..
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I do believe one day woman will have the equal right as men to equality and freedom. It is sad hearing from a 75 year old Anna g holton ad her face was burn due to disadvantage act by men 😕, as a upcoming feminist I pray my effort to end discrimation and violation against women comes to an end . I LOVE ALL WOMEN no matter your colour😘
There is a difference between Matriarchial and Matrilineal society and the article here seems to have mixed up the meaning of the terms. The term Matrilineal refers to kinship with the mother’s or female line. This may also involve the inheritance of titles and property through the female line. Matrilineality is the tracing of kinship or descent through the female line. We also call this matrilineal descent. The term matriarchal denotes a form of social organization in which a woman is the head. Matriarchy is a social system in which women hold the main power positions in roles of political leadership, social privilege, moral authority, and control of property. The first society mentioned in this article is the Khasi Tribe. I am from India and I come from a community called Garo. The Garos and Khasis live in the same state called Meghalaya in India. They are both Matrilineal societies. Hence, to say Khasi Matriarchial society would be incorrect.